I made ( thisCollapse ) for you to use as a graphic for your LJ, if you want. I'd recommend uploading it to your own image host because I tend to forget what I have uploaded for who and accidentally delete things I don't mean to. :\
I realised that this might seem like overkill, after the instant message note and the e-mail, but I just wanted to let you know that I'm concerned for you, that I'm sorry I haven't been keeping up with you, and that despite everything in your life right now you're amazingly good and managing to get through it all.
I know you've had a bad day, but know that I'm thinking good thoughts for you and wishing you well. We all need someone to go to when things are at their worst, and I want you to know you can always come to me.
Until I can talk to you again, be it tomorrow or the day after, I leave this for you.
I really appreciate everything you do for me. You have always been caring and comforting and simply there when I've needed you, and when I haven't. (Which is rare, but hey.) I don't know how to thank you, other than just saying "thank you" and hoping you realize how grateful I am to have your friendship.
*reads back* I think I've been in a sappy mood lately. But all of that is true, and I just want to say thank you. You are a wonderful person and I love you. :)
Also, I hope you feel better soon. Just keep up with the resting. <3